Good day Dr. Moosa

I believe I have a very big problem, which I hope you can help with. I’ve been told by total strangers that I need to be cleansed for things to go right in my life.

From jobs, to love life, everything starts out good and within less than a month everything just goes wrong.
I can’t seem to move forward in life, and it’s very frustrating. I have an 18-year-old daughter to look after, and sometimes things become so bad for me mentally that I have the most horrible thoughts. Furthermore, I’m a good person and I hate having these horrible feelings.
My ex-boyfriend recently left me for his best friend’s wife. She actually saw an opportunity (we were having problems because I don’t work, it’s because I can’t find a job) and he obviously told her about it.
She took this opportunity to lure him away from me, talking bad about me to him. He ended up sleeping with her while he was still with me.
He is a ladies man and I totally get why he did that. And I forgive him for everything, even though it hurts terribly.
My daughter is very attached to him and they actually both admitted that even though he’s not her biological dad, they feel like they are father and daughter. She looks up to him and has the world’s respect for him.
So all I want is for us to be a family again, and I want him to come back to me.

I want him to be mine only and maybe get married one day. In spite of everything he’s done, he is a good man and a good father. I feel empty and lost without him.
So please tell me what you can do for me/us in order to be together again. I just want my family back and for us to be happy again. Thank you.